Love Killers wk 4

Love Killers wk 4

4 Signs Your Marriage Is In Trouble

SUMMARY :
Every couple fights, and how you fight matters. If you’re fighting to win, you’ve already lost. 
The question isn’t whether conflict happens, but what you do with it.
This week, we’re talking about what healthy conflict actually looks like, and how to fight for your relationship instead of against each other.

KEY SCRIPTURE :
“… Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.
James 1:19-20 NIV

HIGHLIGHTS :
*When one spouse wins, both lose.

The Four Predictors of Relational Failure
1. Criticism.
2. Contempt.
3. Defensiveness.
4. Stonewalling.

• Should it be said?
• Should it be said now?

Conversational Nevers
• Never call names.
• Never get historical.
• Never threaten divorce.
• Never quote your pastor in a fight.

Win The Day!

Watch:
https://youtu.be/vyWu3z9Re-k?si=EPRwn2XoW6RlM2Wu

Listen:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/2Ogy2IZSgjxfYFh5oObWUU?si=OBqs9jUzT266f4-81b_F_Q

Discuss:
http://www.life.church/talkitover/

Join me in reading 3 Tips for Better Relationships :
https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/57334